You do not need to turn your wedding into another list of tasks. A little preparation can leave more room to be present. Here are ten things worth talking through before the day.
1. Decide whether to exchange a letter or gift
If that is part of your plans, agree on when it happens and who will bring it.
2. Plan where you will get ready
Share the location and timing with the people who need to be there.
3. Leave room to greet your guests
Think about when you want to spend time with everyone, rather than trying to fit every conversation into one moment.
4. Check in with your partner
Ask what would help them feel comfortable. Make room for each other throughout the day.
5. Prepare any words you want to say
Keep a copy of your vows or toast where you can find it.
6. Talk through the portraits
Tell your photographer which people and photographs matter most to you.
7. Know the next part of the day
Keep the timeline handy and know who to ask if plans change.
8. Take a little time together
A short walk or a quiet minute can give you space to notice what is happening.
9. Help with the family photographs
Share the group list beforehand and ask someone who knows everyone to help gather people.
10. Let yourself enjoy it
You have invited people you love to celebrate with you. Leave room for the conversations, laughter and things you did not plan.
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